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PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2011 3:28 pm 
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Location: Denpasar, Bali
Apa yang menyebabkan seseorang menjadi orang Bali?

Agama?

Tanah kelahiran?

Tempat tinggal?

Adat istiadat?

Perilaku?

Cara berpikir?

Tindakan?

Amal?

Kepribadian?

Pakaian?

Ucapan?

Niat?

Aku tidak lagi pergi ke pura.

Aku sembahyang menurut caraku sendiri di dalam hati.

Aku tidak lagi ke banjar, kalau terdengar suara kentongan, aku hanya membayar denda dengan uang,

sebab aku harus setiap hari berada di kantor.

Aku tidak lahir dan tinggal di Bali,

tetapi seluruh kebijakan local Bali seperti desa-kala-patra, karma-pala, rwa bhineda, dan sebagainya, menjiwai hidup dan sepak terjangku.

Apakah aku bukan orang Bali,

karena aku tidak memakai kain?

Ke mana-mana aku memakai celana jeans dan sepatu kats.

Bicara pun aku tidak lagi pakai bahasa Bali, karena bahasa Indonesia membuatku bisa berhadapan setara dengan siapa saja.

Hidupku tidak terbelit upacara, karena tugas-tugasku begitu banyak supaya bisa bertahan hidup.

Ketika orang-orang datang ke tetangga, aku tidur untuk menyiapkan tenaga.



Aku tidak bisa menari.

Tidak bisa menabuh.

Tidak bisa melukis atau membuat patung.

Masih berhakkah aku disebut orang Bali?



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 24, 2011 10:50 am 
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(TRANSLATED FROM GOOGLE TRANSLATE:)

What causes someone to be a Balinese?

Religion?

Place of birth?

Place to live?

Customs?

Behavior?

This way of thinking?

Action?

Charity?

Personality?

Clothes?

Speech?

Intent?

I no longer go to the temple.

I pray in my own way in my hearth.

I was no longer to banjar, if 'kentongan' voice heard, I just pay the fine in money,

because I have every day at the office.

I was not born and lived in Bali,

but the whole policy of local Balinese village-kala-patra, karma-pala, rwa bhineda, and so on, live in my life

Am I not the Balinese,

because I do not wear Balinese cloth?

Everywhere I wear jeans and shoes.

I do not speak any longer the Balinese language, because the Indonesian can deal with anyone.

My life is not wrapped up the ceremony, because so many of my assignments in order to survive.

When people come to the neighbors, I sleep to refresh my body.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:44 pm 
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Dextra wrote:
(TRANSLATED FROM GOOGLE TRANSLATE:)

What causes someone to be a Balinese?

Religion?

Place of birth?

Place to live?

Customs?

Behavior?

This way of thinking?

Action?

Charity?

Personality?

Clothes?

Speech?

Intent?

I no longer go to the temple.

I pray in my own way in my hearth.

I was no longer to banjar, if 'kentongan' voice heard, I just pay the fine in money,

because I have every day at the office.

I was not born and lived in Bali,

but the whole policy of local Balinese village-kala-patra, karma-pala, rwa bhineda, and so on, live in my life

Am I not the Balinese,

because I do not wear Balinese cloth?

Everywhere I wear jeans and shoes.

I do not speak any longer the Balinese language, because the Indonesian can deal with anyone.

My life is not wrapped up the ceremony, because so many of my assignments in order to survive.

When people come to the neighbors, I sleep to refresh my body.
:hero: I think, you just live in bali


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